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I was lucky enough to recognize similar behavior in myself a long time ago, and I 'fixed'[1] it by getting a lot more organized, and by looking for potential pr
by onion2k 5y ago
I was lucky enough to recognize similar behavior in myself a long time ago, and I 'fixed'[1] it by getting a lot more organized, and by looking for potential problems ahead of time so I can route around them. I'm a huge fan of things like "pre-mortem" meetings to work out where blockers might occur as early as possible and mitigate the issues before they're blockers.
It takes a lot of effort. There's no magic fix like sleeping more or going for a run. They make me feel a bit better, but the problem is still there.
[1] My partner is a therapist (not an arrogant one though), and she says what I do is 'catastrophizing behavior', where I look for things to worry about. She's entirely right. My issue is 100% not fixed but it's not a problem any more. If anything it actually makes me a much better developer.