It strikes me as odd that you would even have a pro/anti position. To my mind that contributes to the division since it also happens to turn into an identity in

It strikes me as odd that you would even have a pro/anti position. To my mind that contributes to the division since it also happens to turn into an identity in some form. "As someone who is pro police...", "being pro police is about X not Y." I find it mentally exhausting. It's like walking on eggshells.