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How can a marriage and having kids move you out of depression? How can you be a good partner and a good parent if you can't even find the drive to live? Feels
by knuthsat 5y ago
How can a marriage and having kids move you out of depression?
How can you be a good partner and a good parent if you can't even find the drive to live?
Feels like one could get into even more difficulties when relationships and parenting get hard, even with money.
I see this advice everywhere, "Just have children.". I do not understand how this is sensible advice for people that are obviously not fit to be parents at their present moment.
- revnode 5y agoYou think too much. When thoughts aren’t purposeful (get from A to B), your mind will wander and frequently lead you to unpleasant places. When you’re married with children, very rarely will you have time to let your thoughts wander.
- knuthsat 5y agoYeah, maybe if you find the drive to care about your wife and children. But that's a big maybe. Especially for a person that does not care about themselves.