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I would think it would be weird to fantasize about taking drastic, socially unsanctioned action to deal with circumstances that you are already dealing with eff

by dkarl 5y ago

I would think it would be weird to fantasize about taking drastic, socially unsanctioned action to deal with circumstances that you are already dealing with effectively in real life. People do commonly fantasize about using violence to escape humiliating situations, but very few people take violent action against their tormentors, so it stands to reason that most of the people who fantasize about violence aren't violent in real life.

2-718-281-828 5y ago
somebody resorting to cajoling is maybe acting "effectively" but certainly not "efficiently" with regard to personal menal hygiene and most likely suffers from that behaviour. also I'd suspect a source for this behaviour which might well be engaging in rage phantasies about how to respond to perceived injustice and disrespect by peers.