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> 'Honestly? No' The 'No' alone would be enough, but the 'Honestly?' would me want to look for other jobs right away.

• lelanthran 5y ago
  >> 'Honestly? No' > > The 'No' alone would be enough, but the 'Honestly?' would me want to look for other jobs right away. Can you explain why one is worse than the other? (I'm not being facetious, I'd really rather like to know).
  • mac01021 5y ago
    I suspect the GP is interpreting "Honestly?" as an expression of incredulity at being asked the question - as though the asker did not know their place as an employee. I can see how such an attitude would be offputting, but I do not believe that is the correct interpretation of the HR spokesperson's meaning.
    • chinathrow 5y ago
      You're right. English is not my first language and I've read the "Honestly?" more as "Seriously?".
      • mac01021 5y ago
        It's just an english idiom that doesn't mean much. It's like saying "If you are looking for an honest response, the answer is no."
      • confidantlake 5y ago
        Sometimes it something like "I know you won't want to hear this" or "I suspect you won't like the answer". It is prefacing something like I know you don't want to hear this but I would rather be honest than lie about it.