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> I also think it’s hardly traumatic This sounds to me like people who tell people with clinical depression to "just cheer up, it worked for me!"
by commandlinefan 5y ago
> I also think it’s hardly traumatic
This sounds to me like people who tell people with clinical depression to "just cheer up, it worked for me!"
- oneoff786 5y agoOn the other hand, maybe not immediately getting a ton of pussy the minute your balls drop isn’t trauma, but just part of a natural curve of learning adult socialization and coming of age. Maybe that’s why romantically incapable male youth goes on adventure of growth and ends up romantically successful, even if as a side note, is one of the most common story arcs ever told. The average age people first have sex is 17 the US. We should not pretend that you’ll be scarred if that number turns out to be 20.