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In most places, it's verboten to consider the experiences of sexual relationships as as starkly gendered as they are, and even rarer for anyone to say that the
by scarmig 5y ago
In most places, it's verboten to consider the experiences of sexual relationships as as starkly gendered as they are, and even rarer for anyone to say that the social structure of sexuality is anything more complicated than men oppressing women. Treating romance as the highly contextual reality that it is is a good and useful thing.
- whatshisface 5y agoThese threads are doomed to go sideways because for the most part only frustrated male software engineers show up to them. It's the same dynamic as the feminist groups that produce their kind of toxic dialogue; people who have life sorted out don't show up to talk about it and what's left are people with varying degrees of idiosyncrasy.