This seems like less of a development problem and more of a self confidence problem. You should have a session with a therapist, there is probably a deeper cau

This seems like less of a development problem and more of a self confidence problem. You should have a session with a therapist, there is probably a deeper cause of this in your life and you'd be better off trying to figure out that than finding a bandaid that HN could provide. There are tons of remote options like BetterHelp where you can get an appointment quick without much hassle or commitment, so it's a pretty low threshold to give it a shot---that might be a good place to start. Good luck!