I got something different out of both of your examples. Its not that many people talk about the expense of marriage, its that people would invalidate the peopl

I got something different out of both of your examples. Its not that many people talk about the expense of marriage, its that people would invalidate the people who talk about the financial intertwining and folly of marriage as both a cultural institution or contract. Just like you pointed out that only people in the religion of anti-religion are the ones who talk ad nauseum about it, instead of just being non-religious people.