> What this means is that only a few men are getting all the matches on tinder. The actual statistics, in fact, pan out this way. But matches don't matter, eve

> What this means is that only a few men are getting all the matches on tinder. The actual statistics, in fact, pan out this way. But matches don't matter, even unicorns only have 24 hours in a day and 16 waking hours. time spent having sex/cuddling/making out and sharing intimacy. That is what matters. Of course in a perfect world you'd be the one on the receiving end of all those matches, but as I said not even unicorns can possibly take women out of circulation, it's a matter of physics and time, can't get around that. The fact that from time to time a woman you are involved with will also be seeing or texting a unicorn can't be a reason to throw away the baby out with the bathwater. At the end of the day it's the reason why we are anatomically shaped in the way we are, nature knew that an attractive woman would be seeing multiple men so it equipped us not to compete just physically or psychologically to secure exclusive access but also anatomically should that not be possible. Gotta trust your apparatus and your soldiers to do the job they were built to do, better than the opposition.