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The article assume's guys are "insecure" have an anger or anxiety problem, spend too much time on "4Chan and Reddit" and lacks physical connection. Which sounds
by rkk3 5y ago
The article assume's guys are "insecure" have an anger or anxiety problem, spend too much time on "4Chan and Reddit" and lacks physical connection. Which sounds like they aren't able to establish a relationship.
- Zababa 5y agoI don't see the correlation between your two sentences. There is an existing group of young males that are insecure, may have anger and/or anxiety problems, spend too much time on 4chan/reddit/social media as a whole, and lacks physical connection. What makes you think that they aren't trying to establish a relationship? They certainly are failing, which is why this article and lots of other exists. There is a whole community of pick up artists trying to give advice to these people, though this is often dating/one night stand advice more than relationship advice. There are also feminists trying to teach these young males how to approach women, and talking about the subject. For example, here's a post from 2014 talking about this subject too, and quoting lots of people talking about this subject, for the same audience ("nerdy young males"): https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-romanceless/ https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-roman....
- rkk3 5y agoI didn't say they aren't trying to establish a relationship, I said their profile would suggest that they lack the ability to. Maybe they would benefit from seeing a therapist... but I don't think what is holding them back is how they are talking about their feelings or how they feel about intimacy.