I don't think you can, if the fundamental premises and values of different groups of people are too divergent. I've been noticing the greatest hates comes from

I don't think you can, if the fundamental premises and values of different groups of people are too divergent. I've been noticing the greatest hates comes from actually knowing your neighbor rather than the myth hate comes from being ignorant. If I had to guess its knowing plus disgust leads to polarization.