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I think GP was talking about honorific/humble o not the object marker o, and chose a poor metaphor. Because honorific/humble o is often a signal for feminine l

• earthboundkid 5y ago
  If I meant the direct object postposition, I would write “-wo” not “o-”. The problem with o- is that both men and women use it, but women use it slightly more, and getting that right is hard for a non-native.