Even milder things can be tricky, like "I'm fine with gay people but they shouldn't be allowed to marry or adopt". Is that homophobia? You will end up having t

Even milder things can be tricky, like "I'm fine with gay people but they shouldn't be allowed to marry or adopt". Is that homophobia? You will end up having to either force your particular views on everyone, or just disallowing discussion of controversial topics altogether.