I'm not saying ditch the list, I'm saying tuck it in your coat pocket and keep your eyes open. The person you end up with likely be more fantastic than your exp

I'm not saying ditch the list, I'm saying tuck it in your coat pocket and keep your eyes open. The person you end up with likely be more fantastic than your expectations, while not fitting the profile 100%. Imagine if after spawning a fruitful relationship the person finds this list, then what? It's possible that they'll dwell on these perceived shortcomings and feel inadequate, it could curtail the potential of your experiences together.