And people fly on jets to attend climate conferences where they eat steak and tweet about income inequality from their new phone made by people earning pennies

And people fly on jets to attend climate conferences where they eat steak and tweet about income inequality from their new phone made by people earning pennies and on and on. Humans are selfish hypocrites. Maybe your family members don't have any inconsistency because they're drawing a line in the sand at "heartbeat" or whatever, or maybe they're just hypocrites like everyone else. But it's important to recognize we are all hypocrites, and that someone doing one thing while saying another doesn't actually reveal some hidden dishonesty or deception. John Kerry really can care about climate change while having a massive carbon footprint and your family really can care about saving babies while doing IVF. The human mind will rationalize all sorts of exceptions and justifications for even the most strongly held beliefs.