I like urban sprawl and car dependence. It gives me freedom and space, why would I want to live in a gross, drug filled city? Have you lived in SF, Chicago, New

I like urban sprawl and car dependence. It gives me freedom and space, why would I want to live in a gross, drug filled city? Have you lived in SF, Chicago, New York, Nashville? I have and it's awful. Please don't ruin my suburbs