> So your default is to treat others like shit? That’s rude and presumptious, like the very behavior you dislike. My default is not to expect others to be nic

> So your default is to treat others like shit? That’s rude and presumptious, like the very behavior you dislike. My default is not to expect others to be nice and generous, like if you work for an asshole do you expect them not to be an asshole? Is that an intelligent assumption? I have realistic expectations.