There is no easy way around this. > my dad refuses to leave his house until he dies Fair enough. > my dad currently crawls his way up the stairs each day to

There is no easy way around this. > my dad refuses to leave his house until he dies Fair enough. > my dad currently crawls his way up the stairs each day to use his computer. These could be solved by elevator chairs. Might need to look for a creative person/company to install them. > I have my own young family and my partner and I have jobs It does help if you have siblings. Otherwise, you just need to assign a part of your time to them.