You seem to be getting downvoted. Not sure why. I've had someone in the family who got cancer. It was basically how you said it would be. They lived their life

You seem to be getting downvoted. Not sure why. I've had someone in the family who got cancer. It was basically how you said it would be. They lived their life to the fullest, not thinking about the untreatable cancer. Do whatever is fun and makes you happy. At some point it got bad. No more living your life. There were bad moment. There were better moments. There were worse moments. I only saw it from afar until the very end. The last bit must have been hell for the closest family. It really is just dying. Slowly. Painfully. And all society and doctors try to do is to prolong the suffering. I'm being unfair to some people. I do know the palliative care team did their best. All volunteer doctors. Power to them.