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Here's a piece of advice I might have found useful in my early 20s. Don't project long term consequences on short term decisions. It's really easy to ask your
by apohn 5y ago
Here's a piece of advice I might have found useful in my early 20s.
Don't project long term consequences on short term decisions. It's really easy to ask yourself what the "right" decision is and then consciously or unconsciously weigh this against every other possible decision and how it could affect your entire life. Even with something like "Should I choose to spend to spend the next 6 months learning anthropology, literary theory, or psychology" turns into an agonizing decision if you start trying to determine how that decision could effect the rest of your life. The truth it, it probably doesn't matter which one you pick or even if you decide you'd rather stare out the window for 6 months first, and then decide which one to study.
Sometimes even the big long-term decisions don't matter in the long run. I know somebody who got married and was divorced by age 22. Now they've been married to somebody else for 10+ years and has 3 kids. They learned some lessons from the first marriage, but in the long term it didn't matter all that much.