Hasura supports authentication and ACLs with the builtin PostgreSQL user system. And we use Kratos (from the ory.sh ecosystem) for OAuth. It supports PostgreSQ

Hasura supports authentication and ACLs with the builtin PostgreSQL user system. And we use Kratos (from the ory.sh ecosystem) for OAuth. It supports PostgreSQL triggers, and webhooks so you can implement your own business logic. Hasura is open source and provide way more features than postgraphile. IIRC, their SaaS offering includes a PostgreSQL. It's a wonderful piece of technology that covers 95% of your needs. They also provide a complete docker-compose so you can start tinkering with it on your dev host.