> there was a space and place you could talk about your feelings. In the last, you know, 10 years or so [post-transition] I can’t find those spaces necessarily

> there was a space and place you could talk about your feelings. In the last, you know, 10 years or so [post-transition] I can’t find those spaces necessarily for men, and I don’t know if men necessarily make those spaces for each other. We do, we just don't put labels on it, it's informal, usually unscheduled and happens in various context and settings. You're out doing X and topic Y comes up. I personally don't like the topic of safe-spaces because no space is truly safe when you discuss actual dark or contrarian thoughts.