Take care about your grooming, clean nails, trimmed eyebrows, clean and fresh clothes. Most people can talk easily about themselves, so if she doesn't have any

Take care about your grooming, clean nails, trimmed eyebrows, clean and fresh clothes. Most people can talk easily about themselves, so if she doesn't have anything to fill a silence, general, open questions like, 'so, where did you grow up?' will get you over it and produce new content, as it were, that can lead forward. You can contrast or note similarities, but don't take over the flow unless asked about something or it's silent for a while. Things in common are good but you don't need a carbon copy of yourself, you need someone compatible enough to get along with each other, and the hardest thing, both need a partner they can respect and trust. If both sides feel further research needed, meaningful conversations will present themselves as it goes on. If either side don't feel it's good, be kind and accepting, she's putting herself out there same as you; if you learned a deal-killer, you'd be in the same situation having to gently detach. At the same time, if it's your feeling, you need to indicate that you would like to go on, so people typically propose doing 'it' (the date) again, or suggest going somewhere specific together at the weekend, so it can be turned down cleanly but also to show clearly where you are at. Good luck.