I try to add value to the world as well. I don't see how those things are exclusive? And yes, it is very selfish. I try to optimize for my own happiness. Which

I try to add value to the world as well. I don't see how those things are exclusive? And yes, it is very selfish. I try to optimize for my own happiness. Which includes helping others, being nice, adding value, doing things that make life less fun in the short term but better in the long term.