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Get married, have multiple kids.
by mostertoaster 5y ago
Get married, have multiple kids.
- wombatpm 5y agoFinally some real advice. Go out, meet people, fall in love. I had my first child at 30. Would have been a lot easier at 25
- saaspirant 5y ago>Would have been a lot easier at 25 What do you mean?
- wombatpm 5y agoKids are hard and time is cruel. My oldest will remember his grandparents, my youngest will barely remember his grandmother as an old lady who couldn’t talk right. Where my wife bounced back from the first child, it was a lot harder seven years later with the second. Just having the energy and stamina to keep up with your kids is hard, gets harder as your body slows down, and gets really hard when your parents get older and have their own health problems. My mother-in-law went from being able watch the kids when we needed to, to no longer being able to drive because of a stroke and needing to be taken to therapy three times a week.
- saaspirant 5y agoUnderstood Thanks
- agent008t 5y agoSounds like none of it would've been a problem if you hadn't had kids? Were your 20s, without kids, not better than your 30s with kids but with all these self-imposed problems?
- wombatpm 5y agoIF you are going to have kids, having them younger is better is my point. Are kids worth the trouble? - that is for you to decide.
- EnlightenedBro 5y agoTrue. Having children is the most meaningful thing anyone can do in their life.
- dougmwne 5y agoOr not! Not everyone can have or will have kids. Your life can be awesome without marriage. Your marriage can be awesome without kids.