Probably have to add some elaborate narration and then some sort of routine in the process of flipping your own cards so they forget how things started out. Al

Probably have to add some elaborate narration and then some sort of routine in the process of flipping your own cards so they forget how things started out. Also, given that you're on HN, you've probably chosen a partner who is at least somewhat intellectually stimulating and thus significantly more likely to think this through than the average person.