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Also pro tip: Find a partner who’s an extrovert and has natural social abilities. It’s made things a lot easier and pushed me out of my comfort zone socially in
by yoav 5y ago
Also pro tip: Find a partner who’s an extrovert and has natural social abilities. It’s made things a lot easier and pushed me out of my comfort zone socially in ways that made my life a lot better and more interesting.
Reading through the other replies it looks like a lot of people diagnosing neurodivergence. Maybe that’s true, I guess I might be on the spectrum somewhere if I think about it, but I’m not sure knowing that really helps in any practical for solving for just social misunderstanding.
Lean into situations, don’t be afraid to make mistakes, make light of it and be open and people will gravitate to it and help get by.
But also remember the goal is to find what you like and live like that, while being able to get by in a world designed for social butterflies and extroverts.