There is no trick to it—just like any trait, social skills just come with experience. If you started with maxed out introvert skills but didn’t put anything int

There is no trick to it—just like any trait, social skills just come with experience. If you started with maxed out introvert skills but didn’t put anything into charisma it is going to take more work to raise those people skills to a high level than the ones you are already good at. Basically, just keep at it. Try and make a point to do something social every week, or even day. Eventually you will incorporate those hidden rules based on your experience learning what is good and bad, just like you learned the rules of writing machine learning software, and social interactions will become second nature. I used to be a tremendous introvert, but in college I was lucky enough to have great friends who introduced me to more social situations than I normally would have experienced, and it helped a ton. These days I would almost say I lean extrovert. It really just takes practice and experience!