True human connection is an special event. Most of your life, you need to be able to go about your day, while everybody else is also going about their days. Mos

True human connection is an special event. Most of your life, you need to be able to go about your day, while everybody else is also going about their days. Most people are not interested in a two sided connection with you specifically - they have other people that they are already spending energy and effort in connecting. Superficial connections are the bread and butter of socialization.