To ease on the toxicity, I think I would replace the grandparent's argument by this: The employee is one person, which you can choose to trust or not. The emp

To ease on the toxicity, I think I would replace the grandparent's argument by this: The employee is one person, which you can choose to trust or not. The employer are multiple people. Of these, maybe dozens or hundreds can impact employee's work. You can trust all of them or not. This is the crucial difference.