Whether religious or darwinist, which is a better mate for desirable child-bearing members of the species? 1) A man who is master of his own body and emotions,

Whether religious or darwinist, which is a better mate for desirable child-bearing members of the species? 1) A man who is master of his own body and emotions, who out of respect for himself and fellow human beings, would choose masturbation and self-discipline until he acquires preferable female(s). 2) A boy puppet to the whimsy of his sexual appetite, who out of pursuit of pleasure will use and toss fellow human beings simply because they are "less desirable".