This is one of those things i want to talk about any every time this subject comes up but i just don’t have the energy to sustain it because the arguments alway

This is one of those things i want to talk about any every time this subject comes up but i just don’t have the energy to sustain it because the arguments always turn into spreadsheet politics. So i 100% agree with you and i think exploring this aspect of the conversation is an essential part of healing it.