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> I find smalltalk with people I don’t really know to be extremely challenging and tiring. And yet with people I do know, or in conversations on topics where I
by nicoburns 5y ago
> I find smalltalk with people I don’t really know to be extremely challenging and tiring. And yet with people I do know, or in conversations on topics where I feel confident, I struggle to shut myself up.
FWIW, this pretty much exactly describes an introvert. Being introverted doesn't mean you don't like socialising at all.
- blowski 5y agoThere are so many definitions of introvert that it’s mostly lost any meaning.
- zamfi 5y agoPerhaps, but this sounds like what someone who doesn't know many extraverts would say. If your default preferred way of being isn't "with other people" -- to the point where you feel anxious when you're alone for any reasonable length of time -- you're probably some flavor of introvert?
- blowski 5y agoHow many humans even have “default modes”?