Same-sex marriage wasn’t legal until just a few short years ago. Same-sex parenting (adoption, surrogacy, fostering) is still a legal minefield to the extent th

Same-sex marriage wasn’t legal until just a few short years ago. Same-sex parenting (adoption, surrogacy, fostering) is still a legal minefield to the extent that it is now allowed. So: interesting point - “time to devote to grad school” could have something to do with it. But I think it’s important to remember in that analysis that choosing to get an advanced degree rather than the alternatives you mentioned wasn’t necessarily a real choice at all, until very recently.