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Maybe I, not OP, can chime in with an example. Since labeling myself an introvert I was better able to know what attending bigger social come togethers (like te
by sdoering 5y ago
Maybe I, not OP, can chime in with an example. Since labeling myself an introvert I was better able to know what attending bigger social come togethers (like team events, family reunions, conferences and the like meant to my "energy" level.
I liked how in another thread a commenter described this "energy" as maybe the energy necessary for our brains to keep the shields up.
Attending a social event to me means I know it will deplete me. It will require me to find a way of refueling afterwards. I now know better when and why to make this trade off. Because there are benefits to attending certain situations/events - I just need to balance them for my mind and body with taking care of myself.
It is like doing a grueling but necessary work. I know it needs to be done and I know how to take care for me afterwards.
And on the other hand it also helped me to understand, why certain situations (like being with a few select friends and talking all night) left me invigorated and provided said "energy".
So labeling myself that way provided a heuristic for managing my mental state and energy level better than before.