It's very funny how relative the concept of sex appeal is between different cultures. One of the key few moments in my life was when an old Chinese woman who w

It's very funny how relative the concept of sex appeal is between different cultures. One of the key few moments in my life was when an old Chinese woman who was a coworker of mine at the time told me: you are smart, know math, and are good looking; you shouldn't work here; you should work on Wall Street. I rarely before thought of myself a good looking, being thin, pale, light-haired and not conforming to the traditional wide-shoulder, tall-dark-and-handsome masculine ideal we have here in the West. For better or worse, her comment certainly increased my ambition...