> > A good Asian woman is supposed to shine dimly, like a moon, and reflect her husband’s sunlight. > Not that she's completely sold on that model either. As

> > A good Asian woman is supposed to shine dimly, like a moon, and reflect her husband’s sunlight. > Not that she's completely sold on that model either. As I read it, that is the "softness" / "stoicism" she's talking about. She's just exemplifying.