You're not lazy, you're burnt out. I experienced a very similar thing. I quit, but I was in a position to do that. New job would probably fix some things, for

You're not lazy, you're burnt out. I experienced a very similar thing. I quit, but I was in a position to do that. New job would probably fix some things, for a while. A change of scenery can do a lot. Working on code you haven't been staring at every day, solving different types of problems, working on a legacy codebase, etc. I say just smoke some pot and chill out. Enjoy your family. Explore other perspectives. The job really isn't that important. In fact, maybe that's why you feel how you do. Best wishes.