> Am I just spoiled and lazy? How do you define lazy? I like to re-frame that term somewhat positively, in that you could do the bare minimum to get by, and be

> Am I just spoiled and lazy? How do you define lazy? I like to re-frame that term somewhat positively, in that you could do the bare minimum to get by, and being creative in avoiding conflict or drama. You could also re-frame it as avoiding stress, getting adequate delicious sleep, and being well fed on a low-budget. There is a saying I often refer to: 'Avoiding work is oftentimes the most hardest of all work. Looking busy is a whole art-form in itself'.