Sounds like you just have a problem with authority. Starting from middle school and through high school my parents frequently sat down and explained things thor

Sounds like you just have a problem with authority. Starting from middle school and through high school my parents frequently sat down and explained things thoroughly with me in such a way that earned my respect. I would be very concerned if my kid immediately tried to hack around my limitations and that would immediately warrant even tighter controls. That's not a battle your child should win.