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I came here to post what you say not to, and was informed by your comment. Serious question though: what _should_ one say or do to help those who may be suicida

I came here to post what you say not to, and was informed by your comment. Serious question though: what _should_ one say or do to help those who may be suicidal, both in the public and personal? I’ve known several people who committed suicide, and I wish I’d been able to do or say more for them. I know some now who struggle with suicidal thoughts and mental illness. What is the best, right thing to do and say both to friends/family and in a forum like this?

mthoms 5y ago
Every situation is unique but often it’s best not to “say” anything. It’s best to just listen. Like really listen. And offer to continue listening. Encourage others to do the same. Most importantly, Resist the temptation to give advice (unless it’s solicited). Don’t ask “have you tried X?”… instead ask “what can I do to help you get through this”.