A good framework I’ve heard for this is “scaffolding” - as a parent you can provide a little structure to help your child solve problems that might otherwise be

A good framework I’ve heard for this is “scaffolding” - as a parent you can provide a little structure to help your child solve problems that might otherwise be out of reach. As the child learns you gradually step down support until they’re able to succeed on their own. In the working world we call this mentorship. It’s surprising to me that the practice is controversial when applied to children that have so much more to learn.