I disagree. For me and many people I know, a large part of my “unhappiness” was from obsession with work and work politics and other similar nuisances which led

I disagree. For me and many people I know, a large part of my “unhappiness” was from obsession with work and work politics and other similar nuisances which led to sometimes unhealthy lifestyle and lack of meaning in life. A kid certainly changed that for me and there is nothing more important in my (and partners) life than spending time with them and making sure I bring the best in myself for the sake of them. In fact a lot of thoughts of self harm I used to have, I think of them largely my responsibility to keep them at bay and gradually they have become foreign to me once I realize it is my duty to keep myself in best shape for the sake of my child. My only regret is delaying having a kid and family. That said my well paid tech job definitely made it possible not to have to worry about food plans shelter and other basic needs for my child, something that not everyone is privileged to have.