many people in that risk group aren't aware of these tendencies (now there are words for it we did not have 30 years ago: suicidal ideation) until their kids ar

many people in that risk group aren't aware of these tendencies (now there are words for it we did not have 30 years ago: suicidal ideation) until their kids are ready to leave home. Plenty of us around with families not knowing how to make it, even we've felt healthy all along until some event (or cascading events) changed everything.