Unlike the other replies, I believe that people actually can control their emotions -- especially if they are expert meditators. That said, I usually don't dat

Unlike the other replies, I believe that people actually can control their emotions -- especially if they are expert meditators. That said, I usually don't date expert meditators, so wouldn't expect my partner to have a perfect control over their emotions. But I would expect them to have sufficient control over their actions. So that is where I draw the line.