I think that is a fine question to ask in this forum. Maybe not a question that people in the situation described can handle of course! Related may be "Too bro

I think that is a fine question to ask in this forum. Maybe not a question that people in the situation described can handle of course! Related may be "Too broken to imagine (myself) being fixed." Which is probably more of a failure of imagination (and possibly of support) than a reality. And then you get into what does "fixed" mean, vs "good", in a _person_ ...