Unless explicitly agreed, devices are to be used in the living room down stairs. Roughly the rest of rules are as follows: Two oldest get some social media und

Unless explicitly agreed, devices are to be used in the living room down stairs. Roughly the rest of rules are as follows: Two oldest get some social media under the condition that they do not do anything that identifies themselves. One exception: accounts that are closed and only shared with closest of close friends. If anything comes up they can contact us parents, their aunt/uncle or a teacher according to who they feel more comfortable contacting. I have promised to defend them, and even if they have done something stupid they are kids, and even if it is really dumb, telling me will always be the safe and comfortable way out as I prefer knowing. So far it has worked well and we have already sent one report to the police together because they came to me with a rather nasty recruiting attempt that we managed to document. (Yes, this is of course obvious to many of us but I have taken time to spell it out because I want to be ahead of nasty people telling them: what if your Dad finds out?) I have 5 kids age somewhere below 15, the youngest one is less than 4 and too young for devices.