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The topic is the financial problem though, so that statistic would be irrelevant. In a certain way, 5 years together and then breakup is what you should be aim
by Fire-Dragon-DoL 5y ago
The topic is the financial problem though, so that statistic would be irrelevant.
In a certain way, 5 years together and then breakup is what you should be aiming for, rather than marriage + kids and then breakup. The first one is "the test bed", the latter is a mess
- dagnytaggert 5y agoI love this quote. I can't tell you how many people get married, have 2 children (it's always 2!!!) and then pretty much immediately get divorced. They think that by saying "My ex", they're respected more in society ("Oh, someone married you? You must not be that bad.") They don't understand how expensive the divorce process is and how they would have been so much better off having those 2 kids with a sperm donor/surrogate. "The first one is "the test bed", the latter is a mess." Hope you don't mind if I use that quote.
- Fire-Dragon-DoL 5y agoPlease do! Less kids unhappy, hopefully (I am son of divorced parents. Divorce lasted 20 years...)