Our society doesn't have much incentive in speaking about things which are seen as negative like death or divorce. Marrying and having kids is also a pillar of

Our society doesn't have much incentive in speaking about things which are seen as negative like death or divorce. Marrying and having kids is also a pillar of the economy / consumption. Having multiple kids and spending several hundreds of thousands of dollars (in the US) between school, healthcare, nanny, sports gears, clothes drives the economic machine. If men knew the dire consequences of divorce and stopped marrying and having kids, the whole GDP would take a hit.